Antenatal Class - 2nd session

Antenatal class kali ni, Mr Nayang yg lebih bersemangat..

I did ask him why, he said because he already block the time for this..

Hmm.. walaupn jawapannya tidak menepati citarasa Jue, tapi terima jer laa..

Class kali ni banyak dgr talk.. Mostly theory laa.. Practical ada, tapi sikit2 je..

Topik pertama pasal Care for New Born..

Dia ajar camane nak mandikan.. All the dos and don'ts while taking care of our new born..

Yang paling penting ialah, cara pegang baby yg still lembik tengkuk tu..

Tgk nurse buat nampak mcm senang.. Camane laa kitorg nnt ek..? risau lak.. :p

Nurse tu ajar jugak camane nak pakai kan baju..

The thing is, kita kena siapkan dulu baju and pampers and binder and all that stuff b4 g mandi kan..

The reason is, lepas mandi, baby sejuk and kita kena pakai kan baju baby tu cepat2..

Masa nk apply ubat kt tali pusat, tali pusat tu kena tarik ke atas sikit, (sikit je tau) then apply ubat yg hospital bagi..

Mula2 sapu sekeliling, then use another cotton, apply upwards..

Lagi satu, kalau baby ada nappy rash, do not apply powder talc.. Lotion xpe..

Sama ada minyak telon & minyak yuyi, its better to use minyak telon..

(Jujue dh beli minyak yuyi laa pulak).. The reason is, minyak yuyi tu panas..

Semangat lak dengar semua petua2 diorg ni..

Masa Jue tgh semangat mendengar nya, tetiba Jue terdengar dengkuran yg halus...

Memang Jue cam sgt dengkuran tu.. Terus tangan Jue merayap ke arah empunya dengkuran tu punya kaki, and splet mencubitnya..

Ya betol!! Suami kesayangan yg berdengkur.. Dia bole tdo? tadi semangat sgt..

Ye laa, bilik malap, air-cond lak tu, mmg syok laa nk tdo..

Insiden berdengkur ni terjadi sebanyak 2 kali.. Sebaik x kuat tau.. Kalau x, malu diri ku..

Nurse tu ada jugak ajar pasal breastfeed.. Very informative..

For working mommy, b4 start keje, kena train baby utk minum EBM..

Ada schedule nya.. Takle laa kedebub bagi dia minum EBM kan..? Cian dia..

If pump kat office, kena bawak cooler bag and letak ice (if office xde fridge) for EBM storage..

Whhoaaaa.. Sgt mencabar nak besar kan baby.. Everything kena well planned.. Esp for the working mommy.. phew~

During this slot, nurse tu ajar jugak cara nak perah susu guna tangan..

Mcm lagi senang compared to guna machine.. Siap ada bantal berbentuk nenen lagi utk kitorg practise..

Jue practise kat nenen Nayang je.. Hehehee..

Ada insiden yg berlaku masa my turn nk try practice kat bantal nenen ni, tp tanak aa citer..

Sbb org yg gelakkan Jue plg kuat ialah Nayang.. Jue gelakkan dia xpe.. hehee..

Ada lagi, nurse tu bg Jue chance to hold the baby (anak patung) in breastfeed position..

Mmg betol, kalau ikut cara yg nurse tu ajar, we'll feel very comfortable.. Just use 1 hand..

Masa Jue tgh practice tu, Nayang bangun dr kerusi sbb nak g amik something..

Jue pn terus bg anak patung tu kat Nayang.. Tanak bg dia lari.. hehee..

terpaksa laa dia layan bini dia and nurse tu cara2 nk pegang baby bila nak breastfeed..

hik hik hik.. Sorry Nayang, I just want to make them happy..

(semua gelakkan Nayang bile Jue rapat kan patung tu ke arah dada nayang)

The last slot is visiting Labor room...

And, Jue tak penah lak imagine labor room ni cantik gak ek...?

Slalu bayangkan scary je.. al-maklum.. tempat org jerit2 kesakitan.. of course laa scary..

Rupa2nya, xde laa scary sgt.. Yg plg penting, labor room tu sejuk.. Mmg kena prepare stokin siap2!

Nurse tu pn ajar breathing technique.. Dia cakap, masa nak push tu, tarik nafas dalam2, then hembus panjang2 and sekuat hati...

If nafas tak cukup, curi2 tarik nafas lagi and sambung push.. jgn tarik lama2.. Kalau tak, baby masuk ke dalam balik..

Tetiba, kedengaran seorg lelaki mendemonstrasi kan teknik tarik nafas pendek tu..

Nurse tu pn cakap, "Haaa.. mcm tu laa.."..

And again, semua gelakkan dia.. Yes! sekali lagi.. Org itu adalah my Nayang..

Ada satu benda pelik yg ada kat hospital ni ialah katil buaian..

Uish.. Pelik.. Kalau nak bersalin atas katil buaian ni, there will be additional charges dalam 500-600 RM and can not take epidural..

Nurse tu tak cerita laa pulak apa reason xle amik epidural if we choose this swing labor bed..

Ni laa swing bed tu..

Sepanjang sesi ni, x tau laa bape kali org gelakkan si Nayang ni..

Masa otw balik, Jue ada buat pesanan kat Nayang..

This time, I make it in writing.. I hope he wont forget this...

"Dear nayang.. Bila tiba masa Jue nak bersalin nanti, Nayang jgn demo cara2 tarik nafas pendek tu k.. Nanti Jue tergelak and Jue tak bole nak focus.."..

Final Check up???..

We just got back from our monthly check up..
Tiap kali nk g check up ngan Dr Seri ni, mmg rasa excited..

Tp tadi rasa a bit x best.. sob sob.. eh, Jue x nangis pong tau..
Baby punya progression is very good.. Sgt active..
I also did ask Dr Seri why kadang2 bila baby tendang, Jue rasa sakit..
Dr Seri said, the baby is strong now...
Hamboi hamboi.. budak tecik ni..
But its ok laa.. as long as cayang membesar dgn sihat, then we'll be happy ok..

Benda yg tak best is, Dr Seri cakap, baby lom turun banyak..
Sepatutnya my due date is on 1st Oct, which is lagi seminggu lebih..
If position baby mcm hari ni, 2 weeks from now pon lom tentu dia kuar..
Haiya.. Stress! Stress!

Nayang pn turut sama jadi doctor tadi.. Nayang suro banyak exercise..
Hhhuuwwaaa!! Dah 2 minggu Jue park kereta jauh2 kt opis sbb nak jalan jauh tau..
Cuma, bila Jue jalan laju sket, rasa mcm nak terjatuh lak baby ni, so I walked a bit slower..
When I told Dr Seri what I feel, she laughed at me.. She said the baby wont pop out that easily..
Dr Seri also advise me to squat for sometimes..

So, masa otw balik td, Jue recall blk why is this happend?
Squat? Mmg sejak pregnant ni, I never squat..
Smayang pn duduk atas kerusi.. if takde kerusi, Jue akan berdiri sampai abis.. so, less movement..
Jalan banyak? Mungkin Jue rasa Jue jalan banyak.. Tp lom cukup laa tu..
Naik turun tangga? pun x banyak..

Sigh~
I sms-ed my mom.. She asked me to drink air zam zam and niat dlm hati..
And some more, my abah is otw to mecca today..
She will asked Abah to pray for me, supaya smua selamat and lancar..

Why Jue frust if baby kuar lambat?
sebab, my mom can only be with me until 16th Oct.. She'll go back to Saudi on 18th..
I really need her on the first 2 weeks of my confinement.. Its my first time and me and Nayang need to learn a lot for our next comers.. Chewah! Berangan nak ramai laa pulak..
Lagi lambat, lagi sekejap my mom can be with me..

What is my next action?
I did sms-ed my sister as well..
I said, starting tomorrow, we'll have a smooth jog kat taman depan umah ni. Whenever Nayang is busy, she has to accompany me.. Of course after work laa..
And she replied me, its very good and suggest me to sleep while standing as well! Sabar je..

At the same time, we already booked the date which is on 1st of Oct..
The doctor asked us to come on 30th Sept at 10pm.. Induce laa, apa lagi..
Yes, we did agree and yet, still hoping for tak-mau-induce process..

So, please pray for me..
Deep in my heart, I really want everything to be safe and smooth.. Amiin..